In my last entry I talked about my awakening. It was a massive breakthrough that opened the door to my Akashic Records and I am forever changed.
MY CHILDHOOD:
My childhood had conditioned me to 2 major life traumas;
1. If you romantically love someone, that will not be validated.
2. It is really difficult to achieve success and people around you don’t expect you to succeed.
MEETING MY FIRST SOULMATE:
For the first time I was shown that love can be validated. The challenge was to trust this to be true and enjoy the ride. Instead, I let the opinions of the outside world, and my fears based on past experience dictate how I handled the love I felt. The more alive the love, the more afraid I felt of it. I was sure the bottom was going to drop.
So I left him before he could leave me. To protect myself. Which only sent me into a deep depression and yearning for what I had lost.
He wouldn’t take me back, and now I know why. I didn’t learn my lesson so he wasn’t meant to. I had to feel my love invalidated again in a more intense scale so that I could grow to overcome it.
MOVING ON:
Instead I became even more guarded and protective of my heart.
I knew that great love was out there for me now which was an important lesson to learn. And so much of me did lean on that knowing. I dated confidently now. I wasn’t afraid to flirt or meet men. That was a big deal.
The Universe saw that change in me and sent along my next soulmate.
MY SECOND SOULMATE:
Deep down my soul knew that this soul was another who would spark the enormous love back into my life. So I kept him at arms length for a very long time, as a protection.
Finally he broke me when he moved to California and I think the safety of him being so far away allowed me to let down my guard knowing that nothing more could come of it then fun flirtation.
We were so intimately connected even though he was so far away. When he planned to come home for Christmas that year we decided to have a romantic couple of days together. It was so perfect, so true, and yet when he left to walk out the door my heart was aching with disbelief that we would never be together.
THE CHOICE:
A few weeks before my romantic rendezvous with Soulmate 2, I met his Counterpart.
He was a really nice guy, and we had a lot in common artistically but he wouldn’t kiss me. He wouldn’t connect with me beyond an intellectual level. And while the intellectual level was wonderful, it didn’t fuel my soul.
When Soulmate 2 left I had a choice. Let go of all fear that love will not catch me and follow him to California – OR – “protect” myself from my emotions and stay in my new job, with the safe Counterpart.
I didn’t pass the test.
REPERCUSSIONS:
Immediately after I was meant to follow Soulmate 2 and decidedly didn’t… my boss became an emotionally abusive asshole. And when I left that boss, I found another one equally abusive.
My relationship with the Counterpart became dissatisfying quickly. We couldn’t connect, and we were beginning to bud heads.
But still I “protected” myself from heartache by NOT leaving, and deciding to try to “work” on the things that didn’t fit.
The Universe gave me a shit storm in life. I had no friends, I was away from family, I was in an unhappy relationship, and I had lost my passion for photography because of my horrible bosses.
I had a big lesson to learn and yet I was so blind.
1ST MOMENT OF CLARITY:
After 5 years with the Counterpart I knew I had to leave. I knew life wasn’t as it should be and at this point the budding heads had become screaming matches.
He wore me down. Promising me change and committing to move back to my home town with me.
Now this is the unique thing about this Counterpart. He is my perfect match for learning my lessons because he is a mirror for the exact lessons I needed to learn. He is very fearful of everything in life and he is extremely self righteous about those fears. He can throw every single ego driven reason to doubt any decision at you, until something resonates with you and you give into it yet again.
We moved to my home town and continued to live a mediocre life filled with doubt and a desire for more. Always fighting, but always blaming our external sources for each issue that came at us.
PREGNANT:
When my daughter was conceived I had come into an abrupt awakening. I had no idea I was pregnant but became overwhelmed with the knowing that the Counterpart and I were not meant to be. I knew I deserved magic.
I have since learned through Universal signs pointing me to a passage, that told me that my daughter is my Guide. And she came into my life because I was stuck and not getting through my lessons on my own. Literal Divine Intervention.
I know that her being in my womb was her first step in beginning to plant ideas and trigger emotions within me.
We decided to stay together once I learned I was pregnant. But the desire for more was intense and so my spiritual journey began.
I became obsessed with inspirational books, the Tao de Ching. I wanted to live toxin free and eat cleanly. I was determined to find the pure me again.
MY SPIRITUAL JOURNEY:
My daughter showed me the preciousness of true love. With her I didn’t have to worry about the conditions of her love for me, or mine for her because I knew it was eternal.
Through her my calling was sparked and I realized that my purpose was to share the celebration of love with the world. To encourage people to remember that we are all love and that is all we ever need to be.
She sparked my passion for Storytelling Photography. Capturing the true essence of relationships and love.
She sparked my thirst to want to be everything I am meant to be without going back to jobs that didn’t fit that.
She sparked my thirst for Spirituality and meeting more in my community. Absorbing and learning anything I could. Developing a spiritual daily practice for myself.
And through all of that my distain for my marriage rose, and my knowing that all isn’t well became clear.
1ST SEPARATION:
I knew I had to leave the Counterpart, but the fear was still there. I had read and learned so much about the Universe, and I was actively trying to lean and pushing through fears every day. But there was still something within me that didn’t let go of that fear. But that’s the point. We must push through the fear in order to see the truth, that the only thing to fear is fear itself.
He sparked doubt in me yet again when he brought to light my short comings and the fact that I haven’t been a peach to live with either. I became renewed to try one more time. If I improved, then he would improve by association.
SELF REFLECTION:
After trying to be my best for a few weeks I sank into somewhat of a depression. I was unmotivated and lethargic.
I was still obsessed with my Spiritual Journey and always learning.
This was the perfect recipe for my Spiritual Awakening and my key to the Akashic Records. My discontent, mixed with my desire to learn, and my obsession for self reflection led to a breakthrough that can never be undone.
THE BREAKTHROUGH:
Why do I act horrible with the Counterpart?
Because you’re in pain. You can’t be your best self because you are Denying your pain and therefore it is seeping into every area of your life. The pain needs to come out somehow if you won’t honour it.
So if I’m in pain, because I’m in a dissatifyed marriage, then I will never be my best self until I leave.
Correct.
And then it all made sense. And the teenage psychic reading about SOULMATE 2 being my destined husband and that I’d follow him to the US came flooding in. And I saw the lesson I was meant to learn about trusting in love. And I saw how my boss became horrible after that time. And I saw that I couldn’t run from PAIN ANYWAY so the safe route wasn’t safe at all!!
And then I saw that from now on life will be easy. My business is going to boom, I will find another Soulmate, and I will be living my life in a spiral of love forever and eternity.
I see the game. I know the game. Just trust. We make it so hard but it’s so easy. Just trust.
My next post will be about my revelations of the game we are all just pawns playing out.